Woman’s Clothes
Nowadays, as we know that dress code is very important to man or women that mentioned by the community now because the dress code represents a person respect to another person. Dress modestly is an issue that happening in our daily life or working life. Modestly is all about showing a person’s behavior, social status, dress, and values.
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Yet for women, they do not care any things about safety that they wearing clothes where very expose their body or rock and they think this kind of wearing styles will bring them to pretty and feel that they are in the center of the world nowadays. But all these stuff also determine the level of social problem of a country and whole world countries also faced the same problem that changing the style of girls dressing. The way of girls dressing like expose their body is a dangerous action that can cause criminal happened and the girl will be hurt at the end. Sometimes, the girl not only hurt yet she may be killed by criminals. For example, there is a famous rape case in Indonesia where an India lady raped by few criminals in the bus until dies and she is not wearing so exposed.
So, the government was set a few rules or laws that required women to dress modestly based on these few rape cases. From that law set, it may decrease the rate of criminal happened.
Types of clothing to dress decently
There are four types of clothing that mentioned dress decently, such as formal or informal, party attire and housecoat. All these four types of clothing is a good guideline for every woman in their daily life even though they have to work at outside or inside the house or have to attend a certain wedding dinner or party.
These are some example of formal clothing for women in their
Why the rules must require women to dress decently? There are many harmful matters faced by a woman who did not dress decently.
For safety
Girls or women should dress decently before step out from the house even in the house because if you are like to dress that just want to expose your body then you just bring benefits to the man that always looking to you and attract them to do criminal on you because of you want to be more sharp in the other eye. Majority of girls or women did not realize this fact. There are many cases published in the newspaper to show that many criminal cases such as murder or rape the women or girl who didn’t dress decently. Clothing can also be used as a sexual signal.
Looks more professional
The looks of the way women dressing will be professionalism. In other word, clothing can give stating or claiming a personal or cultural identity. When you are dressing decently, you are giving a good impression to others and let others treat you better. So that, in many societies, women have to dress decently to meeting with the customer if not the customer will think the women who meeting with him or her is not serious in the business. In this case, women wearing properly will bring her lead character when she is leading a team to the more professional culture in the office.
Keep body warm
In the mentality and physically of women, they could not face any harm from outside such as cold weather. From the biological aspect, the body structure of women is weaker than a man’s body structure so that they have to cover their body with clothes to avoid getting sneeze and cough.
If they are getting cough or sneezing, they may differ with usual in emotional and get them to depress in their life, such as student or employee and this is the reason for self-murder case happened.
The way to increase knowledge of dress decently in women
As one friend for whose dressing that exposes their body, we should advise them to wear properly to avoid dangerous or criminal no wonder that you are. Besides that, we as a family member should advise them do not dress too expose their body. Yet we as the family member did this, we should have a family meeting or family day to remind them back also.
As the government, we should enforce or make the laws and rules more strengthen to avoid the rate of criminal case increase. Furthermore, to decrease the rate of criminal, the government should organize a campaign or talk to increase the alertness of women. The government should organize training for women to learn self-defense art as a way to protect themselves from criminals even though they are wearing modest dressing. Besides that, the police should make more portals in a certain dangerous place to avoid a criminal case of women increase. The places where there is a higher risk of women’s safety are a playground, recreational park, shopping complex, and car park.
Conclusion and recommendations
From the education aspect, we should increase this kind of knowledge for women into girls who are growing up into women and on another side, as a parent, we should implant some religious knowledge such as Islam, Buddha, Christian, and India religious teaching to our children to stop this sad matter that is happening around them. By learning this knowledge, women not only understand other religious knowledge but also understanding the facts which will eventually help them someday.
As my opinion, all parties should work together and solve this issue especially the women. Women should change their clothing style to ensure that they are in safety and do not try wearing some clothes that expose their body and then make their life at risk. Sometimes, we as a friend should accompany them and help them to choose suitable dress and clothes to avoid they don’t know how to choose and then choose wrong dress and clothes and make their life in risk.
Dress indecently may make you feel beautiful and get attention when people are surrounding you but please do not make yourself look like yourself wanted to do it because your life is given by God and is precious to your parents. So do not make them sad for the sake of your happiness because this happiness would not last long.
INTRODUCTION TO DIVORCE
Divorce is the legal separation of husband and wife, affected by any reasons that make them lost confidence in their marriage and also the divorce must have the judgment of a court by accepted custom. (thelawfictionary.org)
A big change that has occurred in the Western families are increased with high rate in divorce. In the last 20 years, the rate of divorce was increased with high rate in Western countries. For example, 20 years ago in Australia, only one marriage in ten ended in divorce but the figure is more than three multiples nowadays. (Australian Bureau of Statistics, 1996)Based on a statistic from Eurostat, Latvia has reached the highest rate of divorce on the Western countries that is 4.0 billion. For the coming Western country, Luxembourg is the next of Latvia is that reached 3.4 billion in 2011.
RESEARCH ON DIVORCE
Causes that lead the marriage into divorce There are many causes that will affect the husband and the wife’s marriage and lead them into divorce. Divorced can be caused by simple mistake done by any party of the family and there is no point if the people did wrong and did not realize and correct it to save the marriage based on what they have sworn in the wedding.
Cheating and dishonest when having an extra illegal relationship
Many respondents said that if their life partner cheated or lie to them, they could end the relationship. They could not live with another life partner that lied to them before because they think this is ashamed. By cheating, the other spouse would lose their trust towards their partner. When there is a lack of trust, a misunderstanding occurred easily because none of them actually wanted a proper solution for their conflict. They have an extra illegal relationship based on the situation that another life partner dishonest to their spouse in return for another life partner. This situation frequently happens to the majority of marriage.
Higher income
Usually, the husband is the sole breadwinner but nowadays women play the roles of the wife is now earning more income than the husband. Eventually, the wife decided to take control of the whole family disregarding to the feeling of the husband. This is known as the ‘queen control’ where the wife has more authority than the husband. So the wife’s ego attitude has brought up into family conflict and the husband’s ego underestimate. This will bring the misunderstanding to both parties where both parties could not tolerance with each other and this bring their marriage to broken and afterward, there are very hard to them recover back their relationship and marriage.
Effects after husband and wife divorced
There are many effects after husband and wife divorced and this will bring many harmful effects to their child. Not only they will bring efficiency to their child but to their own family members, community or worldwide. These are some effects as stated below:
To family members or own self
The effect of divorced will bring more suffer and pain or sadness to their own family member first because they are the one closed with divorced people. Furthermore, the people who divorced may think lifeless or something related to negative could do some stupid actions like revenge to their life betrayer who betrays and dishonest on their marriage before. They will lose confidence in any relationship and marriage to avoid them gets hurt again.
In addition to divorce, there are many divorced people hide their feeling and afraid to seek assistance from outside and this will affect their daily life to become more tough and stressful than other normal people. This means their mentality is already affected by “divorce” this word. Besides that, they afraid to know new friend even try to enlarge their social network because they keep that outsider is the one who will bring danger to them and they could not face any pain or sadness anymore.
Many parents no matter is father or mother, they will face mentality problem after they are divorced and this problem will cause divorced parents’ child will get suffer and pain because of abuse from their parents. Child abuse can be sexual abuse from their own parent who is divorced to fulfill their requirement. The child could not get a good and memorable childhood because they are living in an incomplete family. The child will be growth in an incomplete family and their mentality will be affected and do the stupidest action to make them happy and enjoy by doing some actions related to the social problem, such as taking drug, alcohol and so forth.
Neighborhood
Generally, a family is not complete by having divorced in that particular family. The divorced story will become a gossip that discussed by neighbors although this is a common matter that will happen if something happened to your family it is too hurt a people when you are talking and chatting his or her gossip behind when he or she knows it. Sometimes, a couple had divorced and then it can form a bad reputation to other family members. It is because people will not sympathies to what happened to you but they will make a joke or keep laughing on you and this is caused divorced couples cannot face any stress because this is the most stressful thing they have to face. This is what we call it as a human being.
Besides that, the other family will feel ashamed on your divorced marriage because they think the people who dishonest in the marriage are their own relatives but not for the other side or they will put the fault into the people who divorced with their relatives and they will start the gossip and spread it out.
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